Rocking With The Memories
Each of us has something that we hold on to to help us remember a special person, day or event in our lives. Sometimes, it is a photograph on the nightstand, a greeting card in the dresser drawer or a letter from a friend that we want to read again and again. I have all of these things tucked away in my memory boxes,but today, I want to share with you two very special pieces of furniture that I now own. My Papaw Chester's rocking chair and a graduation gift that I just received. Both of them dear to my heart, each one a reminder of people and times I never want to forget.
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| Papaw's Rocking Chair |
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When I think of my Papaw Chester I always think about his rocking chair. He was always working on it or painting it. He used to sit in it when he ate his dinner,braided my hair or talked on the phone. He was sitting in it the last time I saw him alive and it was one of the only things that I wanted to keep when he passed away. My best friend Cyndi gave his chair a special touch. On the back of it, she painted the words "Midge and Chester" "Together Forever", a gentle reminder that families are forever and that love does not end at death.
Of all the places I could be there is no place I would rather be in than in my Papaw's lap.
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| My Graduation Gift |
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Yesterday, my church parents came to visit and they brought me a beautiful graduation gift. You guessed it, a rocking chair. My church dad carried it from the car and told me to try it out. Momma Gail told me about all of the time he (my church dad) has spent working on it and painting it just for me. It reminded me so much of my papaw and the times he spent working on his. I was truly honored that they would give me such a beautiful gift. I sat in it the rest of the evening and reflected on the past two years. In the past two years, I have earned my Associates In Arts and Associates In Science degrees. Pretty amazing for a middle-school drop-out. This chair will always be a reminder of the accomplishments and disappointments that happened along the way. Looking back I can remember how scared I was on my first day of college, professors that I loved, professors that I strongly disliked,dreading Math, loving Math,applying for financial aid, waiting for financial aid, losing loved ones (my papaw and father-in-law 6 months apart),gaining new friends, praying for a job, working two jobs that nearly gave me a heart attack,hoping for a snow day, being upset when had a snow day, joining clubs wondering why I thought I could take on so much,doing community service, needing community service, sweating my Astronomy grade all semester and finally earning an A (Thank You Mr. Riggs), dreading Math,being blessed with the best Math tutors. Did I mention dreading Math? Getting to go to college with my daughter, realizing that I am old because I have a child in college,figuring out that some relationships will always be broken, learning to mend relationships that still have a chance at being saved, giving myself permission to be sad,gaining the knowledge that we are all responsible for our own happiness, knowing when to hang on and when to let go, but,most of all, knowing that we only get one life,but, the memories we leave behind live on forever. Make each day count and live as though today were your last day. One day, it will be. Thanks for the memories.
Memory
is a way of holding onto the things you love, the things you are, the
things you never want to lose. ~From the television show The Wonder Years